Sad news!

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthen me” (Philippians 2:13). Whenever we have visitors they often asked us, “how do we cope with the deaths of the children?” Most of the time my reply is simply “God helps us!” But now, I know for sure it is God who helps us with this job. I can honestly say that for Lyn, whenever a child is near to death she sits with them and sing and pray with them until they die. This whole weekend Lyn was working and stayed with the little girl until she died. I know for sure that it is God who helps her through this hard time as she is the one who has to tell the families of the children that they children might die soon or is dead. What a calling!!!

Yesterday we lost our coma baby, even though we knew that she was going to die it is still hard.

Wychwood children going to the sea

It is now school holiday and the children from the Wychwood house went down to Durban for the holidays. Granny Peggy drove for 5 hours with the children, and they arrived safely at their destination. We will post pictures when they return.

Parties!!!

The children blowing candles with the birthday man!

Thank you to Autotrader who shared a wonderful party with the children on Tuesday! The children had a wonderful time spraying each other with water guns, making jewelry and singing “happy birthday” to one of the senior members of the company.

The little girl with her mother

On the last post we wrote that this little girl was going to hospital to have her abdominal feeding tube inserted and after that she would go home to be with her mother.
Before we sent her to hospital we re-did her Brain scan and unfortunately the brain damage is severe. Currently she is oxygen dependant and the doctors are not too optimistic about her outcome. However we will continue to lovingly care for her and ensure she is pain free.

Birthday parties!

We had 2 parties on Friday, one was for uncle Philly (our driver/handyman) who turned “6” that’s what the children said - it was his 60th birthday so we felt he deserved a cake. The children sang happy birthday to him.


This little girl turned 6 last week. Granny Peggy is very special to her!

New Baby

Another cute little girl, she is 2 months old and due for her blood tests to see if she is HIV positive.

An operation!!!

This is how he sits; he can’t even cross his legs.

This little boy is five years old, he has been with us from 2 years of age. We noticed early on that he had bow legs and that he sits like he does above. We took him to an Orthopaedic surgeon and he advised us to wait two years as most of these cases correct themselves. However with this child his legs have not corrected and his hips have now rotated externally and so he finds it difficult to sit normally. The surgeon and ourselves have decided that he should undergo an operation called an Osteotomy which will correct this problem. We have decided that it should be done this year still as next year he will start grade 0 and as he is already behind we did not want him to miss school.

Award

Lyn accepted an award from Rotary International on behalf of Lambano. The award names Lyn as a Paul Harris Fellow “in appreciation of tangible and significant assistance given for the furtherance of better understanding and friendly relations among peoples of the world”.

Birthday Party!!

This little boy turned 8; he is the oldest in the McAlpine home. Thanks to Auntie Barbara’s friends who donated money for this bike - he was really happy to get a big bike!

Our baby is back!!!

The baby that was rushed to hospital just over a week ago is back with us and she is doing much better, although she is still on full time oxygen. The sad part is that, although she is positive, her CD4 count is really good and she didn’t need to go on the ARV’s drugs yet but, because of the PCP, we have to put her on drugs immediately.

Party!

This little boy turned 2 on Friday. Even though he is 2 he can’t walk or crawl properly yet – he uses a kind of leopard crawl to get around. We did some tests on him and found that he probably received some brain damage because of lack of oxygen when he was born. He goes for neuro-physiotherapy once a week which he loves and we have seen a big improvement since he started.

Our new baby!

We have a new little baby - he weighed about 1.6 kg when he came to us at about 5 weeks because he was a premature baby. He is so tiny that we struggled to find clothes to fit him. His mother gave him away because she couldn’t look after him. He is HIV negative and foster parents have already been found for him so, once he has gained enough weight, he will be going to stay with them.

Our coma child was admitted to hospital today as she kept on running high temperatures and seemed to be uncomfortable. Since she is booked for the surgery to put in her abdominal feeding tube in a week’s time, we felt she needed more intensive care. The doctors now have to decide whether she is well enough to have the abdominal feeding tube put in so that she can go home to live with her mother, or to send her to a hospice for palliative care.